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Coercive and controlling behaviour

Coercive behaviour is an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten a victim.

Controlling behaviour is a range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependent by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources and capacities for personal gain, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape and regulating their everyday behaviour.

Domestic abuse isn't always physical and doesn't always leave bruises and marks.

According to Women's Aid some common examples of coercive behaviour are:

  • Isolating you from friends and family
  • Depriving you of basic needs, such as food
  • Monitoring your time
  • Monitoring you via online communication tools or spyware
  • Taking control over aspects of your everyday life, such as where you can go, who you can see, what you can wear and when you can sleep
  • Depriving you access to support services, such as medical services
  • Repeatedly putting you down, such as saying you're worthless
  • Humiliating, degrading or dehumanising you
  • Controlling your finances
  • Making threats or intimidating you

The law:

Section 76 of the Serious Crime Act 2015

Offence range: Community order - 4 years' custody

Person (A) commits an offence if:

• (A) repeatedly or continuously engages in behaviour towards another person (B) that is controlling or coercive,

• At the time of the behaviour, (A) and (B) are personally connected,

• The behaviour has a serious effect on (B), and

• (A) knows or ought to know that the behaviour will have a serious effect on (B)

Domestic abuse - help available
Domestic abuse - help available

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Childline

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National Centre for Domestic Violence

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National Domestic Violence Helpline (24 hour)

Freephone 24 hour helpline run in partnership between Women's Aid and Refuge

Galop

The LGBT+ anti-violence charity. Emotional and practical support for LGBT+ people experiencing domestic abuse.

Warwickshire Against Domestic Abuse Helpline:

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Samaritans

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Shelter

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